I’m going to commit to one post per week on this thing with the hope to under promise and over deliver. Being a golf guy as the weather breaks is time demanding as well as trying to establish a social life rhythm. I am also trying to figure out a pile of things at work which is taking up a bunch of brain space. Anyhow, I came here today to write about the dating thing.
I had to cut it off with a woman after a couple dates because I don’t want to be an asshole. Feelings were caught and I’m not looking for a new wife… just someone to do some couples shit with who is smart, funny, and speaks fluent sarcasm.
Sex, and the attraction required for said same, is also a deal breaker. If it’s not there no need to try and force it. Either person should be able to call it as soon as they realize no spark. But that’s not the real world. Actually getting laid is not the problem. This game has changed drastically in the thirty years since I last played. All that being said I am a romantic at heart so I’m not immune to feels. They are just buried deep due to events of the last couple years.
Also, there are some people from my past that I will always carry a torch for and I’m not exactly sure what that saying means. For me it is defined as someone I had a deep connection with and things didn’t work out for one reason or another. Usually it was a timing issue or me being to weak to ask them to leave another person. Always felt like a douche move to me.
Anyhow, enough procrastination. It’s housecleaning day before I go golf. By the way I can top to bottom this tiny space in 2 hours including laundry, sheets, towel and all other essentials. Once that’s done this weekend is mine.